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Your First Therapy Session: What to Expect and What to Bring

MHD Editorial Team

MHD Editorial Team · 17 September 2026

You have made the appointment, which is a massive win. As the date approaches, you might feel some first-day jitters. You may wonder what to say or fear that you have to disclose everything at once. The first session focuses on building a foundation rather than "fixing" everything in an hour.

The Practical Checklist: What to Bring

  • Your Referral and Mental Health Treatment Plan (MHTP): If you want a Medicare rebate, your therapist requires a copy of your GP's referral.
  • Medicare and Insurance Cards: These facilitate your rebate and any gap payments.
  • Your "Top 3" List: Although you don't need a script, identifying three key issues (sleep, work stress, relationships) helps guide the initial talk.

The "Intake" Phase: Paperwork and Privacy

Before the conversation deepens, you must complete some essential business.

Consent Forms: You will sign a document regarding confidentiality. Your therapist will explain that your words stay in the room unless they identify a risk of serious harm.

Clinical Questionnaires: Many psychologists use tools like the K10. These are not tests; they help the therapist measure your distress and track your progress.

The Flow: How the 50 Minutes Usually Go

An Initial Assessment typically follows a predictable rhythm:

1. The Admin Check

The therapist confirms your details and consent.

2. The Opening Question

Usually they ask what brought you in today.

3. The Broad Picture

The therapist explores your history and health to gain a holistic view.

4. Goal Setting

Together, you define what "better" looks like for you.

5. The Wrap-Up

The therapist suggests a plan for future sessions.

Frequently asked questions

Can I bring a support person?

Yes. Most therapists encourage you to bring a friend or family member for the first few minutes if it helps you feel comfortable.

What if I don't know what to say?

This is very common. Your therapist knows how to lead the conversation with gentle questions.

How long does a session last?

Most clinicians use the "50-minute hour," which leaves 10 minutes for their clinical notes.

Taking the first step is often the hardest part

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